Women can be difficult to understand or rather ARE difficult to understand. Men are always trying to figure out the way they think, the way their minds work and the mind-sets that they have at times, and just when you think you have it figured out, everything takes a turn in the complete opposite direction.
What you need to be aware of is that a girl’s mood can change so quickly and so often, it can be tough to keep up.
One thing though which most guys tend to do, is try to help them and always solve their problems (especially the nice guys!) which is good in a way, but it has not been proven to be very effective in most situations. There are certain instances where there’s really not much a guy can do for the girl. The girl could be so upset, crying uncontrollably and spilling all the details to you about how sad she is (and sometimes she doesn’t even know why she’s that sad) and in your mind you start to wonder what can you do for her? How can you help make this situation and her better?
The way to help her is to just be there for her, even if it makes absolutely no sense to you. Just be there for her, listen to her; don’t try to ask her a million questions trying to figure out all the details.
Sometimes it’s not for you to understand. All you need to do is hold her close and be her pillar of support where she can be comforted. It’s not your job to understand the situation, it’s your job to make her FEEL comforted and supported throughout the ordeal. When she’s ready to tell you she will.